Tricks of The Trade Thread.

[dru]

MY ho'in days are behind me. Have you taken a LOOK at yourself lately? I'd beat the shit outta me if I cheated on you

[xwa]

Ok, sorry about the triple post...


Ok, time to break myself down for the ladies of XWA, for those that are reading anyways. I look down on myself because physically, I'm not that great looking.

I'm 5'7"(short guy). When I have a beard, I look shitty, when I shave, I look way younger than my age(baby face). I have baby blue eyes(one of the few things I like about myself). I wear glasses(I hate the damn things). I have a gut with stretch marks(I'm trying to get rid of it, because I hate my gut and atleast want to be slimmer). That's where I'll stop on the looks.

Now, the other side of me. This is the first time that I'm opening myself to EVERYONE that is reading this.

I have a short fuse(working on this), over emotional, over sensitive, looking for attention(I'm sure you all have picked up on that), passionate, caring, honest(try to be), jealous streak(with reason), teritorial, not a fighter, I try to avoid confrontations, lack of a back bone(i blame this on my mom), hate rejection, caring, will defend if need be..I think that's it.

So yea, I got a shit ton wrong with me.


On another note. Just because a guy isn't good at dancing, doesn't mean he's not good in bed. How do I know? Me . I'm not good at dancing, but yea. I'll just leave it there .


Anyways, so to any of the girls, would you date that?

[psycho]

I've only ever actually fell in love with one girl. And she came to me(luck huh?)But we were younger. We were together four years before we split up, and the only reason for that is because I moved 100 miles away. Im still in love with the same girl...and Im old enough now that I can go back to where she's at, only one problem, she's with someone else, so Im afraid to let her know how I feel. Got any advise for that one?

I've seen her since I moved, even talked to her....just afraid to say anything.

She even still looks at me the way she used to....I guess im just at a loss of what I should do

[xwa]

I would tell her how you feel, but also say that you don't want to interfere in her current relationship. Tell her that you still feel the same, etc etc. But let her know that if she wants to be with you again, she has to make the choice to leave the guy she's currently with.

[LUCAS STYLES.]

I wear glasses(I hate the damn things)

Try contacts man. This is gonna sound uber gay but I'd just give you some general ideas for a new look. Instead of you're full beard, maybe work a chinstrap. They're pretty easy to keep and seeing the pic of you in the other thread, I could see you pulling it off. The thing that probably makes you look old is the mustache area of the beard..get rid of that and you'll look way younger. Also, grow your hair out a bit, it'll make your face look a bit slimmer and from reading your post, thats what you'd like.

As for the gut, trust me you're not the only one working on the area I'm sure. Just watch what you eat really. Try to cut out sugar as much as you can. My dad used to be a big guy, got diabetes, can't have sugar, is looking slimmer then he did in his twenties and he still eats steak, potatoes...all kinds of stuff that people would think are bad. Also, if you live in a smaller town...walk to places. No need for the bus or a car, just walk around. Even if its for something to do when you're bored, just keep yourself active and moving to work off some pounds. Other then that...play DDR .

[LUCAS STYLES.]

I've only ever actually fell in love with one girl. And she came to me(luck huh?)But we were younger. We were together four years before we split up, and the only reason for that is because I moved 100 miles away. Im still in love with the same girl...and Im old enough now that I can go back to where she's at, only one problem, she's with someone else, so Im afraid to let her know how I feel. Got any advise for that one?

I've seen her since I moved, even talked to her....just afraid to say anything.

She even still looks at me the way she used to....I guess im just at a loss of what I should do

Sorry about the double post but yeah, I'd give the same advice as Omega did. Tell her how you feel but make sure to tell her that you don't want to get inbetween her and her boyfriend.

[lis]

The physical stuff is fixable. The mental stuff is where most women would find the most difficulty in. Especially the timidness thing. I think I can speak for most of the female members when I say a woman would want a man who she feels protected with. When the chips are down and it came to it (God forbid it ever does) I know Oz will beat someone's ass to protect me. But it's not just that kind of protection. It's the natural sense of safeness that comes from having someones stronger around you.

[xwa]

I plan on getting contacts once I have room on my credit card to get an eye appointment. I hate having my hair long. I'm currently losing weight with what I'm on. I drink coffee pretty much all the time and eat 1-2 times a day and they are usually small-medium sized portions. I was 220 lbs, now I'm down to 206.5 last time I weighed myself(which was today). And I was 220 about 2 months ago.

[reddeath]

I weigh about as much as you, and I'm not what most girls in my high school would consider man-pretty... but what I like to think is that I'm one of the most gorgeous overweight American male children EVAR!

(Try thinking along the lines of big and beautiful... some chicks dig big men, tis true)

[dru]

I WILL whoop a mawfuckaz ass. For no damn reason actually, but that's a whole other can of worms...LMAO.

[xwa]

reddeath said:

I weigh about as much as you, and I'm not what most girls in my high school would consider man-pretty... but what I like to think is that I'm one of the most gorgeous overweight American male children EVAR!

(Try thinking along the lines of big and beautiful... some chicks dig big men, tis true)

I would comment about that about myself...but there's kids around

[LUCAS STYLES.]

Good stuff man, glad to hear that you're doing good. Just for the sake of doing so, I'm gonna post what I told her just to see how I did.

Alright I just thought I'd say something before I make myself look like an idiot again. I'm really sorry for not really telling you the truth. Thing is, I don't actually like Taylor. We get along and all but thats it. Sure I've flirted with her and it was stupid of me to do... I shouldn't have considering how much I liked you at the time. I'm not about to go on some Kyle attempt at calling you perfect but I just need to tell you how I do feel. I've actually liked you for a while...a long while. Finding out today that you liked me and I missed that chance makes me feel like such an idiot, and I'm sorry for that. I shouldn't have flirted with Taylor and made you think that I liked her more then I did you...because I didn't . I just hope you might reconsider liking me I guess... I don't exactly know where I'm going with this but I might as well make an attempt...it was a bonehead mistake and I really am sorry about making you feel like I didn't care about you...because I truly did and still do. Forgive me? Or in other words, willing to give me another shot?

And there it is. See the main issue with me is that I'm naturally very flirtatious. I grew up around ladies men and was molded into one. I can pick up girls pretty well for my age and now how to get them. In Grade 6 a bunch of Grade 8 girls named me Ladies Man of the Year . I dunno, in some ways a gift and in other ways its a curse I guess. It may sound strange coming from someone of my age but oh well..I'm more mature then most kids my age, but am still very immature on the same token.

[LUCAS STYLES.]

Oh heh..should have explained the Kyle attempt. He's some dude that really likes her...like almost on a stalker like level...he's pretty creepy.

[xwa]

I'm flirtatious too, but not like I used to be, lol.

Anyways, sounds good. Sounds like something I would type.

[dru]

It's the hair. Chicks did the hair ;D