Tricks of The Trade Thread.

[xwa]

I'd like to point out that the last post was done back in OCTOBER.

[LUCAS STYLES.]

I'd like to point out that I have a hat on and therefore, I win.

[MG]

Girl Help:

Yo I was trying to get with this bisexual chick since last year. She told me she's seeing this boy already so being the I'm I backed off. Then now on to this year not a week ago I told her after she broke up "I want her" as if I was Val Venis or something. So she tries to avoid me for about two day no big. So on Monday I'm flirting making her laugh. Then this lesbian found out that the girl I'm trying to talk to has a crush on her. So I'm like WTF you talk to her or me? Then on tuesday me and this lesbian flirting one after another over and over the whole day. I come back to school to day confident as hell. Calling her sexy and shit she gigggles and we talk before class starts. After lunch the lesbian wanted to flirt again. I didn't do anything because I was on the verge of trying to get with her and I got all choked up. So after US History I asked this other girl(has a boyfriend) if I have a chance with this girl.

She said NOPE! Confidence killer man. I had no more confidence in the fucking tank. Then I had the chance to suck it up and go, but the lesbian comes out of nowhere with her shit again. Oh I forgot to tell you me and the lesbian hated each other since last year as soon as she stepped in the fucking door. So here we go with her flirting for here. Then the girl I asked the first time if I had chance blasted me right in front of the girl I wanted to be with. Man I was "losing it" like in No Mercy. I started to hold my head down and come up to the girl but choke up right before I can do something. Man I don't know man. I forgot how to talk to a girl everytime I come up to her because it seems stupid to just straight up ask her with out build up like the "Road To WM" no bulid up seems stupid. Tomarrow should I:

A) Go for it
B) Bulid up
C) Back off and call it a day.

HELP SOMEBODY HELP!!!! Please I need this shit. Brother/Sister 2 Brother

Law Exams are a coming and can't even study off this shit cause I keep thinking about it. I need to nip it in the bud but I need some HELP!!

[tanden]

I'll give it to you from a female point of view, and that's to just call it a day. It's obvious that this 1st female really has no interest in you. It's sad that some women seem to get off on making guys suffer like that. Usually because they have esteem issues themselves. Me, If I'm not interested in a guy romantically, but he seems interested in me, I let him know right off the bat, so that there is no confusion. Whether or not he continues to associate with me after that point is on him, but I believe in being honest when it comes to matters of the heart. There's no reason for you to feel down, because you're still young. You've got plenty more experiences left to be had, and I think your time should be best put in focusing on what you need to do to better yourself, like your exams. When you go looking for romance, you never find what you want. Just let it come to you, and be patient. You'll know the real thing when you see it. I've been single for about a year now, and while I'd like to find a nice guy who appreciates me for the "whole" me and not certain "parts", I'm not breaking my back trying to find him. In the meantime, I'm enjoying my life.

As for this other chick, to be as blunt as possible, fuck her! Again, it's a matter of self-esteem. And a person who needs to make you feel beneath them is someone who's low to begin with. You don't need the hassle or grief. When you see them tomorrow, walk with your head high and don't even pay mind to them. Don't let them think they have you, because they'll just keep at it to get a reaction from you. Show them that you're not phased by their bullshit. Trust me when I say I know a lot about people who try to bring you down just because they want others to share in their misery. If you let it, it will totally throw you off your game. And from the sound of it you have much more important things on your plate then some silly little girls.

[Kayn]

yea, I'd say pack it in and call it a day. No reason to have to deal with any of that jazz.

[MG]

I know I know. Shawn needs some more help. Hey all I've been trying to do is not be a whore like I used to be last year. So here it goes:

It might be too late because it's the end of the school year but hey theres always next. Well it's this girl that I met around november and she had a boy friend. She used to always steer and wave at me when I was catching the bus to wrestling practice. One time her boyfriend rode the bus with me and he just kept steering at me like he wanted to kill me. I was gonna beat his ass doe. So, she breaks up with the guy and we start riding the bus together after wrestling season in late Febuarary. The problem was that we wasn't by ourselves we was with her best friend so we never talked but I could tell she liked me because even the type of boys she was into she let down when we where on the bus. Sometimes I would try to part away to see what she would do but nothing she still looks at a guy and say "He's cute" then he comes up to her she's like nah. So as time pass by I had a fight with some guy and whipped his ass. He tried to get his friends to jump me infront of her. They was like "Tell your girl to go in the pizza store" she looked at me as if she was worried. It was another time when we were talking and I'll say anything and she just slighty smiled and steered into my eyes. It was one time when I tried the seprate thing again (which couldn't even last a day) she couldn't wait to hug me. She even let here friend walk to the bus stop to wait until I was finshed talking to hug me. I was like wow. It was a couple of times when me and her friend was playing around picking out girls her and I should talk to and the girl I like was just rolling her eyes. Just on monday I was playing around to test the waters and I slapped her ass. At first she played it cool then with a "What the" remark. Then as I was walking out of a door she was blocking she punch my chest with ease then I slapped her ass and started to play again by hitting me and laughing. Oh I forgot to mention two things. She's 9th I'm 10th and Her friend thinks she like me too because she always ask for me but said I should wait

Man, long as write....

Even doe I have to wait until next September should I still try to get with her or just get some summer pussy to hold me off until school again.

[Trouble*]

Or, you could hang with her over the summer?

[MG]

I don't have her number.

[Trouble*]

Get it. 2 months is a long time, and if you want her, you shouldnt be worried about other chicks.

[gallas]

Chicks dig confidence. JUst go up to her and calmly say "Hey, can I maybe call you sometime?" Forming it into a question makes it sound like you want to, but it's not as big a deal to you if she doesn't agree to it. That will peak her interest and even if you don't get it then, you'll be 5 stesp closer to getting next time instead of 1 step closer. Any form of progress when courting a female is good, but when you can make leaps in instead of steps, it's even better.

[kimmy]

Chicks may dig confidence (and this is moreso for my benefit) but you need something to back it up with, which I don't got, looks, money, something. I've been as confident as all hell sometimes and nothing.

[xwa]

So, here's what's happened in my love life lately.

"ya know I am trying to be nice, but you are making it so damn hard to be, I tried to give you a chance and you went back to old ways with crowding me, when I asked for space you ran to many of my friends and probed them for info and last night with Trixi was way off base, she has nothing to do with what I do or dont do.....then you start questioning me about my profile, it is as if my every move has to be closely watched by you and I have HAD IT!!!!!! We are nothing more than friends, and if that will ever change I do not know......you have pushed me to far this time and for now I ask you to leave me be and allow me time to cool down"

So let me give you the run down:
July 9: Broke up with previous gf and got back with this one ( her name is Angie ).

2-3 weeks go by, things are awesome. We're spending plenty of time together, she's being all affectionate, leaving me offlines on a daily basis and so forth. And then around the beginning of August, things changed. 180'd pretty much. She started asking for space, and I was trying my best to give it to her. I'm the type of guy that if I'm really emotionally attached, I will end up talking about her to other people ( like her friends ), just simply that I miss her, miss being close, intimate, etc. I thought I was doing a good job, but apparently not and then today I get the above message.

So to describe me, in a relationship is this:
Loving, caring, affectionate, can be clingy, notices little changes, can question when things change and such.

So, I don't get it. I feel as if I did my best, but my best wasn't good enough for her and made her pissed off. When we were close and spending time together, we didn't fight and we were so completely happy.

My question:

WHAT THE HELL HAPPENED? If this helps, she's a scorpio.

[Bou]

Zodiac signs = bollocks. As a note, I need to stop watching my British friends YouTube videos for a while. I've noticed I've been using British words lately. >_>

Anyway... So a person was born in a certain month. It has nothing to do with their behavior in my experience with people.

Too much affection CAN be a bad thing. I love getting affection myself, but even I have my limits and when I ask my girlfriend for a bit of space, she gives it to me. Whether for a couple of days or a little longer. That's not to say she doesn't call me to see how I'm doing and all. It doesn't mean there is anything wrong though.

I honestly don't know enough other than what you've given to actually say anything on it, other than what I already have. I don't know what the thing is that was so off base with her friend nor do I know of the profile questioning thing.